How To Get My Ex Back With A Simple Technique
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by: RicardoDaryans
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Ok, so the question is "how do I get my ex back, to return my phone call or text message?" This can be done, but be careful, this is just the begining of a plan, and not a complete strategy. This will get your ex to return a call, but not get her/him back to you (just yet). If you do this without a plan, you can damage your relationship instead of helping it. This is about building a great relationship with your ex once you get back.
First, be aware of what you must never say. A lot of people fall for the usual mistakes, taking them into a very difficult position with theirs ex instead of helping get them back. These are the most common:
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you." Of course, this call is not going to be returned. And if it is, you will be in a disadvantage position. You don't want your ex to call you back because he pities you!
The Emergency call: "Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me". Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get a the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn't help, believe me.
AS you see, these will not do. You don't want to be a liar nor be pitied by your ex. Instead, lets review a simple method to get your ex back on the phone.
Using curiosity and selft interest in your favor. The things humans can't avoid are curiosity and self interest. This are powerful forces everybody reacts too. The big secret? combine the two and you will get a formula that works everytime!
To start getting your ex back, make a call and say "Hi, just wanted to say that I owe you for what you did for me. I would like to tell you personally, so call me whenever you can". Curiosity and Self interest in one! Nobody, certainly not your ex, can resist this call. Because you are sending a positive message, you wil get your ex to return your call.
Now, Before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be plausible. Think about the times you spent togheter, when she/he pointed something about you, or gave you an advice or maybe let you talk when you needed it most. Surely there are some good things you can think about. But more importantly, Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out BEFORE you call. If you don't, you will get the call back, and date with your ex, but no more than that and you will be back to square one.
With this simple method, you will have your ex calling you, but is only a part of a larger strategy. If you really want to get your ex back, you have to have a plan. You now can have a call and maybe a date. Now you have to work to get your ex back.
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Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and "breaking the pattern" you can. Quickly and easily. Get your ex back now.
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