Useful Mindsets for Disarming Male Competition-II

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by: VinDiCarlo
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The other important thing I want to talk about is the idea that another man can be more "dominant" than you.

The alpha male during caveman days had a real power - he knows where to get resources like food, and was physically stronger, that he could beat up competitors. The concept of the alpha male is completely obsolete.

But ask yourself if those powers are relevant today. Every man with a source of income can survive on his own - if you're reading this, you probably have access to food and shelter. You're all set.

Plus, it's illegal to just beat people up. My point is, physical strength is pretty much irrelevant in the modern world.

Attacking another person will always end you up defeated because the police always win.

If you mind doing that, you are LETTING RANDOM MEN TO STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!

Just excuse my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???

It was annoying - remembering all the girls I missed out on because I was scare about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!

When you're on your deathbed, you are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do. How painful would it be to say "I didn't meet that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "there were so many beautiful women I could've enjoyed, but I didn't even try because I saw them TALKING to another guy."

I don't want to happen that to you.

So let's look at this on a deeper level. Seeing another guy as more dominant means you don't truly understand dominance.

There's a better focus. Rather than to see yourself NOT dominant when you are comparing who is more dominant between you and the other guy.

Dominant men don't think about who is dominant. To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.

You see a group of girls talking to another guy. Instead of being concerned with who is more dominant between the two of you, just stay focus on the girls.

I rarely even acknowledge other guys, because too often it's proven to be a waste of time. 9 times out of 10 the girls don't even know the guy - they just met him.

Or if they do, maybe ONE of the girls know him, and barely the rest know him.

It's rare for girls to go out with a guy they are dating - usually they will bring a guy who is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.

And also, if that guy IS with one of the girls, that means he's NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.

You are NOT the alpha male by definition, if you are concerned with who's the alpha male is. In fact, in this modern world it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist .

Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!

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