Song Lyrics and Dating - It All Adds Up to Wisdom

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by: ChrisBenjamin
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I'm on my way to the supermarket the other day listening to the radio like I always do. I'm singing along to the lyrics of Everything You Want by vertical Horizon when suddenly I have an epiphany! Do you know the song I'm talking about? It goes," he is everything you want, he is everything you need but he means nothing to you and you don't know why"?

This is a truly amazing song if you can stop and think about what the words are really saying. The song is describing the lifelong plight of the "nice guy". It's surprising how many nice guys have problems hooking up with women. They can't get a date because of the simple fact that they are TOO nice.

Let me lay it out for you in one simple sentence. Nice guys do not get the girls because they are too nice, which means the women do not feel attraction for them. When they look at these men they see a friend and nothing more.

The simplicity of it all struck me while I was listening to Everything You Want. These nice guys are everything that women SAY they want. They are sweet, complementary and romantic, and they probably love their families and their mothers. But while he is everything she says she wants - she wants nothing to do with him.

The attractive woman is going to end up dating some muscle-bound no neck jock whose greatest goal in life is to graduate college in the next 10 years and treats her like a shoe. What is she see in him? Attraction.

What I am NOT saying is that you should be rude or treat women like crap. What I do want to tell you is that in order to get a date you need to create attraction with a woman from the beginning. You need to create that attraction and fan the flames to keep it going.

How do you do this? You can do in many different ways. One of my favorite ways is to use humor and a little cocky funny attitude. This means you bust on her, tease her and play around with her until she has no idea what you are going to do next. This means you actually play with the attraction vibe between you, in order to keep her guessing about whether or not she is having an effect on you.

Most guys don't get it revealing your level of attraction to a woman in the beginning of your relationship is the perfect way to kill the attraction. The typical nice guy is going to let her know that by treating her like a diamond. The dumb jock, on the other hand, is not going to reveal this to her and his unfeigned "I don't care" attitude is naturally going to keep her guessing -- and coming back for more.

So remember - if you tend to be a nice guy, just sing that Vertical Horizon song to yourself and quit being that man that she will not want. Give her what she really wants by being a little bit of a bad boy and your dating life will turn around. Read more on the relationship between bad boys, nice guys, and the women they both want - click below.

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