The Pick Up Artist and One Night Stands II

There's one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.

Bringing a girl home doesn't based on whether she is open or not in going home with a guy, sure maybe you can her number but it varies widely on particular night.

However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.

I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.

The general reason is that women wants an attention and be approach. Although this isn't always be the reason but a a lot of time it is the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions. Also those women that is looking around the room more often than the other girls in their group.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. It's just have to be social, delicate and showing that you are interested in meeting them.

You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if you talk about that, you're putting a woman to a point where is to agree to implicitly bang with you.

Instead you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic information to know how you can get her back to your place.

The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.

You have to be willing to let go of controlling the situation, and just enjoy yourself, while escalating appropriately.

This is how it will works although it may sound that counter intuitive.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.

You don't want to invest a bunch of time with the wrong girl, or worse, to pick the RIGHT girl, and then mess it up after a lengthy interaction.

It's not worth wasting your time for that.

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