Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part II

There are three reasons for this.

First, being socially proactive may be new to you.

As I can remember, I don't have a pectoral muscles - (the one that is right at the top of your chest just under the clavicle that makes the chest look bigger) before I started lifting weights.

Actually I do have a small muscle but it was so weak that I can't even feel them. So every time worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms. And it took me three good weeks to really feel them.

And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.

You need to push yourself harder everyday in accordance to the level of your skills. Because developing a new neuro-pathways will take time.

The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.

This is actually a little different from "fatigue." It's more like feeling overwhelmed.

Being overwhelmed by certain thing can cause exhaustion to your mind that can lead to some sort of discouragement and depression. It's somewhat saying "ugh, I've had enough of this too much. I'm giving up"

I have suffered from this feeling before when I was taking notes of a lot of theories. And as I looked what I've write, I see that I am just looking at the complicated thing just like a complex physics equation.

It was daunting to think that I had to DO all this stuff just to have quality women in my life.

The last reason why you feel socially exhausted is when you spend much mental energy and focus on stuff that isn't helpful to pick-up.

Many men fails in attracting women and in fact almost 99% of men gets it wrong. Usually the women can't tell because most men after a harsh rejections learn to keep their inner "stuff" to their self.

But of course we can't oppose to the reality that when a guy is attracted to a girl, he is trying his best just to win her or at least know if the women likes him too.

It's the man's role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN sex from her - as what we get from the media, our parents and friends.

So Pathetic!

I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around a cute girl trying to impress her, even though he looks like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better than him because she's a girl.

Ok, enough for that protest... my point here is that so many guys are being screwed when it comes to the control of their dating game.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

You need to get the most out of your body and mind so that it can lead you to the highest level of your interaction with women and that's what's really attractive.

A MAN AT HIS BEST.

About the Author

Vin DiCarlo is a professional seduction guru, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified